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There’s practicing restraint in hopes of making sure that you don’t cross a line or push too hard and then there’s being hands off that you’re coming across as a potential BFF instead of someone who they might want to tear the clothes off later.
One of the mistakes that people make on dates is that they let the chemistry just It becomes a sort of “sexual-desire-as-fate” form of magical thinking; if the chemistry is just “not there”, then clearly it’s not meant to be.
Yeah, you’re great together, you make each other laugh and the two of you give off enough sparks to make it dangerous for you to visit gas stations together, but one of you is looking for a no-strings-attached, friends-with-benefits situation and the other is looking for someone to settle down with.
At the same time, fetishizing someone for their interests doesn’t help either; just because you’re both geeks doesn’t mean that you’re actually compatible.
Compatibility goes beyond the surface; it’s about how well your mesh up.
It sucks, but dating at it’s core is a number’s game.
You’re going to hit a few false-positives before you find someone you click with.